Opening notes
Care experienced is a broad term used for people who are in care or have experienced care during childhood. In Scotland, it commonly includes being looked after at home, foster care, kinship care, residential care, secure care and adoption. Some definitions also include informal kinship arrangements.
A description of a setting tells us relatively little about the relationships or everyday life within it. People may have different feelings about similar experiences, and may describe themselves differently. The significance of care in someone’s life can also change over time.
The meaning someone gives to their experience and the criteria used by a particular service are related but distinct questions.
Further reading: Who Cares? Scotland, “About us” — https://www.whocaresscotland.org/about-us/; Scottish Government, “Kinship care” — https://www.gov.scot/policies/looked-after-children/kinship-care/.
Before you begin
Allow 60 minutes. Bring paper or a shared document. A facilitator can help keep time and make room for different views.
No one needs to disclose care experience or explain their personal history. People can pass on a question. Avoid sharing identifiable accounts of others, and agree how any notes will be used.
If people are invited to contribute expertise, discuss payment, expenses and access needs beforehand.
1. Start with what you think · 10 minutes
Write down what “care experience” means to you and one thing you are uncertain about. Compare answers without trying to agree a definition immediately.
2. Read and notice · 10 minutes
Read the opening notes below, or the guide’s sections on meaning and identity. What was familiar? What added something? What would you like to understand better?
3. Explore a question · 20 minutes
Choose one or two of these questions. Invite examples, differing views and further questions. People can draw on professional knowledge, reading, observations or personal experience if they choose.
- When can a shared term be useful, and when can it feel limiting?
- What can we know from a description of a care setting? What remains unknown?
- How might experience influence someone’s understanding without determining what they think?
- What happens when a service’s definition and someone’s own description differ?
If views differ, explore what each person means and what their view draws on. Agreement is optional.
4. Separate knowledge from assumptions · 10 minutes
Choose a question that came up. Make three short lists: what we know and its source; what we are assuming; what remains open. Avoid filling gaps by guessing what an absent person would say.
5. Leave with a question · 10 minutes
Each person can name something they understand differently, a view they are still considering or a question they want to pursue. Agree whether any follow-up would be useful, and who could help.
Notes to keep
- Something we learned.
- Different perspectives we heard.
- A question still open.
- A source or person who might help us explore it.
- A possible next step, if one is needed.
The aim is a fuller conversation. You do not need a shared conclusion to have learned something.